Love is ...

The original korean text: http://blog.naver.com/stevision/50025368521

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(donga.com's netizen forum, Mar. 26, 2005)

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What is love?

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These days, it seems that women are creating a group rebellion against their husbands. Before marriage, their husbands had loved them so much, but after marriage, the husbands haven't loved them so much, thus the married women get very angry. So nowadays, I guess, not a few wives have young lovers who are not their husbands.

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First of all, I feel sorry about the lack of the warm consideration of a wife whose husband has used up all his energy outside at the workplace and returned home. Some of the women are looking for young lovers in revenge for  their husbands' affairs. Adulterous husband, wife, young woman, young man: all four are evil! (Their conduct is not love.)

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However, the love toward children doesn't seem to abate. Why? Of course the children are so lovely! But the reason why the love of children is hardly weakened is perhaps the love itself the parents have shown their children. For example, the mother who, risking her life, had a son would not trade him with anything else. If you work hard to earn money, and clothe your children and send them to school with the money, and if they are grown up, you'll feel infinite love for them when you see them. After all, isn't the love like investing yours and appreciating what you have invested yours in?

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Looking at the lovely children, the couple should be grateful to each other. If they hadn't met, if it had not been for one of them, how could they have had such precious children? Looking at children's soft skin, the husband can be glad as if he saw his wife's alter ego, the wife who has many wrinkles on the face now. And he will be able to cherish his wife more. The wife, too, looking at the manly son, can be glad as if she saw her husband's alter ego, and can love and respect her husband more. “My wife's youth has come back into my children!” “My husband's youth has come back into my children!”

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If you love her, she looks prettier. That is the law of love! Love is like clothes. If you give someone good clothes, he looks better. Likewise, if you love someone, he becomes really worthy of love. The prettier face thanks to being loved is but a secondary good result.

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The appearance of a person is truly vain. The most beautiful woman is like a lioness if she gets angry. But even ugly women look pretty when they smile. How hateful they are who are posting writings here (at donga.com) that slander others! A man or a woman who is foul-mouthed makes a person feel really tired and annoyed. ‘미인박명(美人薄命: A beautiful woman lives a bad fate’ comes from there. Over-depending on her beauty of brief duration, the beautiful woman tends to lead a slovenly life, and as a result, has misfortune.

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Do you think your wife is not so beautiful? Try to dress your wife with your infinite love. And she will be changed into the most beautiful and lovely woman in the world!